Re: Marriage in Jeopardy, need advice!
Dont know what you mean by that, You can still love this wife of yours and be happier.
For love you dont need to love before nikah. Love is a feeling which develops with time and caring for each other. Other love is more of lust as you just see a beauty and you want to explore that beauty and conquer it. Its not love. I wanted to marry to someone and got married against that. Can’t complain. And now I can say my ex was not the real love. I liked her for few apparent reasons. This one sure is. I know her inside out and real love has developed with time. Couldnt be happier.
If you wanna marry someone else, ofcourse you have the right to go that way. But dont expect happines to be guaranteed. Happiness may or may not come. Same is true for this wife of yours. Happiness may or may not come.
At this time, you have heard of some buzz words and not being practical. Not your fault. bcz you are in that age where this happens. But you will be enlightened with time in everything and will make wiser decisions.
All I am saying is, whatever your argument is, Its not valid. You could have better arguments to end it. For example, you already love someone (or you think so) and you wanted to get married to her. That was for sure a better argument. And no one can deny this right of yours.