Well that is entirely another subject. But know enough that you can live your life with them. I am not saying one should take 1 year or 6 months. All i am saying is..as long as enough to know she understands you understand her well. All good. Example of that would be..my friend recently met a girl. It’s been 3 months they have been talking and she just clicks very well with him. They know..they are for each other. So you actually never know..for that ya gota trust your instinct.