Marriage in Jeopardy, need advice!

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Re: Marriage in Jeopardy, need advice!

@St1ngR

I’ve learned lots of lessons from this. Just because someone loves you, like my family, doesn’t mean they know whats best for you. And as I said things were very hurried, factual errors, and not knowing I wouldn’t meet her till after the nikkah until it was too late. Also my fam said all my jitters would go away after the nikkah.

Since then I’ve gone through some type of breakdown. I truly believe my life is on the line hence I no longer care how many relations I have to break to get out of this.

Right now most of my nuclear family knows they cant stop me from ending this. My sisters and mom have said they’ll end it with me. My older sister, whom I really trusted & who really pushed for the girl now agrees I know whats best for me. My dad and brother in law haven’t been as hard & haven’t threatened to cut relations. I feel like my parents are pretty sad though. Also I said before I gave the girl as much money as I could so she can go to school or do as she wants. Its enough to cover what they spent on the wedding in my view.

That is just covering the expenses and not a compensation for what she will have to go thru after divorce.