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Don't stalk, just talk natural and be yourself.
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aray larki now go and unblock him and just have a genral chit chat about how things are at his end, how is your school coming along, and just general stuff. And don't be shy. It is not that you are proposing him as soon as you unblock him.
Ok ill b honest, today i promised myself to unblock him and chat to him, but i sat their for 45 minutes watching his online icon, i eventually started crying because i don;t know where to hire confidence and guts from, thats why iv come here and this is my first post to see what everyone says so i can do it tmrw inshallah.
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Yeah don't just stare and cry. Have faith in Allah and initiate a conversation.
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omg!! do it right now! ur just unblocking him! its not the end of the world, say bismillah a small dua and hit unblock!
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or give me your e-mail and password, i will unblock him for you :D
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^hehe
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or give me your e-mail and password, i will unblock him for you :D
HAHAHAH.......you know i can't do it on my own, i asked my friend to come over and sit here with me and help me unblock him, but none of them have time,,,i hope you guys will b here in the morning..:)
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omg!! do it right now! ur just unblocking him! its not the end of the world, say bismillah a small dua and hit unblock!
Ok im goina unblok him in the morning inshallah...but how do i start the conversation?
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aaagghhh just do it! u dont have to talk to him right away...
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lol... even if we are not here, there is nothing to be scared of. Just be yourself and confident.
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aaagghhh just do it! u dont have to talk to him right away...
yeah go in offline mode and unblock him.
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im just curious-- where do you live btw?
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yeah go in offline mode and unblock him.
Shall i talk to him offline mode then when he's online next time, and what should i say in the begining..?...
{Oh and Lusi and asimaan you are my online angels :)...thank you so much for helping me boost my confidence...i will remeber your usernames in my dua inshallah!...and everyone else too who answered in the beginning thank you :) }
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Shall i talk to him offline mode then when he's online next time, and what should i say in the begining..?...
{Oh and Lusi and asimaan you are my online angels :)...thank you so much for helping me boost my confidence...i will remeber your usernames in my dua inshallah!...and everyone else too who answered in the beginning thank you :) }
no, when he comes online, just come online. Just say..."hey how are you? long time, how have you been?"
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^ Brilliant!...ill let u know what happens tmrw inshallah, although still nervous :(...fingers crossed
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aww 
yeah i’ll be waiting for updates. Goodluck!
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I think you can relax, he asked you to consider him for marriage once right? Means at one point in his life he saw you as a (potential) life partner. I'm sure hell listen (or read) whatever you say sincerely so don't be shy. Your only taking him up on his offer, that should make it hell of a lot easier than having to propose to him, so your starting miles ahead here. No need to bring marriage up very early in the convo, just start talking to him regularly. After a while (days or even weeks) remind him of his offer and lol it. Then get all serious like. See what he says, and if he says something like hes engaged or something, you can still back-out like you were kidding. YOU have to change fate like you want it, otherwise FATE will change you the way it wants. Good luck :D
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oohhhh im kinda excited for u...good luck xx
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keep us updated :-)