Re: Marriage First or Career First?
as i have mentioned before here, i went for extra career pathway, loosing the love of my life in the process.
according to my parents i wasnt ready even for engagement when i done first degree, even after masters and securing a job in the last semester. never had a time off after studies gone straight into professional life, now i think i should had a break then. after losing her, i moved to another country, focused more on career as i didnt have anything else in life. done another masters and moved to top companies with good bucks, bought a family house in london even i wasnt married living alone, so i made sure i will have good salary, a nice house for posible future wife. it was 4 years aftey buying the house i finally got married in purely arranged marriage.
i am kind of perfect example for career first then marriage.
while its good to be stable before you get married, but i guess you miss the thing you see the couples married and then they build homes together, you miss that part. by this time you already quite matured in life and the fun in you is bit battered which you could have enjoyed when you are slightly younger, because of this your partner also suffer, cause i was more outgoing and after fun 5 years before my marriage, you dont take things and enjoy small moments in life as it does changes with your life and maturity.
perfect is to have first stable job after finishing the studies for guys.