Re: Marriage falling apart 
Yeah, Insha’Allah, I find peace in whatever I decide. I’ve been doing istekhara, today’s gonna be my 5th night, I’ll continue to do it till something major unfolds, insha’Allah.
But, you guys, he really is a good husband. I live with him, I know! I mean yeah there are better men than him, but he’s not bad either.
I, myself am reluctant for divorce because I love him. Yeah, I want to run away from it all, but isn’t that what every person who’s majorly stressed in all aspects of life wants? Or is it just me? If our thinking/our values/goals matched a little bit more, It really would have been a happy marriage (minus the in-laws part, of course). We just clash because we were raised differently (MY FAMILY IS NOT RELIGIOUS) and have different views about things, and I just don’t know how to get over this clash!