Re: Marriage falling apart 
Do you have any physical or mental disability that prevents you from getting a (ANY) job and earn money? Do you realize that when you earn money, you can rent an apartment on your own? You live in the U.S. right? I assume you’re aware that there are countless women out there who support themselves who don’t even have a college degree?
I get that you’re scared and that’s understandable. But don’t try to make it seem like you don’t have a choice but to stay in this situation. No one and nothing is forcing you to stay. It’s a CHOICE that you’re making.