you’re right. I do WANT to lay down plans in front of him. But every time I even start to mention anything, he just says first and foremost plan is a baby, we’ll see the rest later. And sometimes, he says the opposite. So, really I don’t know what to believe because he’s so unpredictable. I want to discuss everything clearly and bring it up many times and most of the time his answer is “we’ll talk later, let’s focus on kids first”. Tell me, that won’t bother you if you were in my shoes?
