Unfortunately, yes, it was a serious question. I forgot to mention, I have PCOS. My husband knows (bcoz my Dr. said) that it’s hard to get pregnant with PCOS. Since we’ve never tried to get pregnant, I don’t know how long it will take me to get pregnant. He’s in a hurry now bcoz since past few months, my hormones have been really out of whack, and he thinks what if I can’t get pregnant soon enough (Allah na kare) and by the time I start, I’ll be too old to have more than 1-2 babies.
Yes, GRE. Like I said, med school looks too stressful at this age to me plus too much money and he doesn’t want me to take loans coz of the involved interest. He doesn’t deal with interest, never has, so I don’t want to force him since it’s a matter of Islam. I have taken interest before and would’ve considered it now but since he’s the one who’s gonna pay, I don’t want to force. Also, we’ve had many arguments over interest before so I’ll be fine with PA or NP school. So we agreed that I can take the GRE and either go to Physician’s Assistant school or an Entry level Nurse Practitioner program.
I know how much care is involved with a baby and all. But, I forgot to tell you guys that I have PCOS and he just wants to get off of BCP to see if I can even GET pregnant. And he said, if I do get pregnant, that’s Allah’s will but he doesn’t wanna regret it if I am not able to and we find it out when I’m in my 30’s.
Nothing! I only had 1 year of undergrad left when I got married, and he did let me finish it, and paid for it. So yeah, basically since the past 5 years, I did nothing at all, no school, and no work! I did volunteer at the Islamic school off and on…but not everyday. That was for like 6-9 months. Then we moved from there and that was it. Yeah, I have a pretty boring life!
