Re: Marriage block | mom issues.
How do you know she moved on? Maybe she didn't, and maybe you should marry her
Re: Marriage block | mom issues.
i have sat and cried throughout this thread 
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..its not fair or right. Our duas with you Thedesi…Inshalah ..Allah give u strength…but like someone once told me “you might want something so bad and more than anything yet u dont get it because only Allah swt knows whats best and right for you because only he knows…and as much as u rant or rave…you will only get somewhere or something with the will of Allah swt”… that always gives me strength :)… Allah swt will guide u through this Inshalah ..
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i have seen so many problems when ppl get married and two families join. some one does not like someone and causes problems...our egos are so big. i pray that when its time for me to be a mil i can stay OUT of my kids personal affairs. and i pray my kids wud find true love in their life partners. it is soooo much of a blessing to have a person to go to at the end of day and know that he/she is someone you can depend upon for love and support.
nazz i luv ur avatar
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:D…^ thankoo aramis …
..its cute isnt it …cheers me up greatly…
I am really sorry to hear about your situation...may Allah swt give you strength through this tough time of yours.
Please dont lose faith...there IS a reason all this happened...we just dont know it yet.
Ameen.. ThaDesi, I really pray that the pain gets easier for you with time and that you find happiness in the future, InshAllah.
Re: Marriage block | mom issues.
Always remember Allah SWT knows best, someday you'll understand why this wasn't meant to be and why it was best for you.
Re: Marriage block | mom issues.
Why are you putting yourself through this - just marry her. Rest will become history.
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ur mom should b proud of u. aaj kal kon itna farmabardar hota hai. InshAllah u will be rewarded for this.
Allah swt has a master-plan ;)
It all depends on where you are in your life plans. If you think you can waste some years of your life figuring out how to convince your mom then go ahead and give it a go. But if you had enuff then matey you gota make the tough decision between the two choices. You can't have you cake and eat it too!
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ive seen this happen before... and its really really sad.
My heart aches for the girl as it does for you.
I dont know why parents are so stubborn. Why are they so ziddi sometimes. If there was something utterly wrong with the girl and her fam, I'd understand.. maybe we all would. But when more than half the family is on ur side, why would a mother do this? why would any parent do this?
sorry, its not about ur mother. It's about a lot of parents i know who do this. Who make horrible decisions for their children and then cry when they see their children suffering.
As a parent, we need to guide our children... but we also need to let them make their decisions. If we have brought them up to be decent human beings (which i commend ur parents for), then why do they snatch away the right to make a decent decision. Which i just do not understand.
Like someone else said above.. I pray inshallah, i dont do that to my children when its their time to find love and get married.
IF you can still marry her... then do so. Otherwise. Move on... Inshallah you'll find someone just right for u.
In times like this, Id like to think, Allah Mian really has something better planned for you. Really, how can He not?