[quote=“khawateen”]
So even before knowing what I or others believe in you assumed that I and others generally pick ,choose or at times make up our own belief systems how obscure of you:].
Not once did I say you were correct or incorrect so your argument on that is irrelevant as far as I am concerned. Although one of the facts which Islam emphasis on which I guess you have totally chosen not to pick, or chose and simply ignored is respecting and treating people nicely.
If you wanted to get married in Muharram you should have done it, you should not care what people say or frown upon as long as you are satisfied. You said yourself aforesaid events were desi so they should really not concern you. Although desi people have every right to live there lives like they wish to just like you have. What gives you the right to call someone’s belief system crap even if it is wrong its because of people like you even those who would listen end up not listening. why would they change if you are insulting them or there, belief.
I think its not that you just dont agree with those people in Pakistan, you look down upon them, for some reason you feel you are superior to them but sad reality and fact of the matter is that you are a desi and no matter how crap you feel your culture and your people are you will remain one of them. You should try and accept who you are, learn to love and respect your people maybe they might listen to you for a change and no all conversations will turn into arguments.
Regards