this * we shouldnt even smile in the month of moharam as its a sad month for muslims* is desi crap. there is no such thing as celeberating death anniversaries in islam just like birthdays dont hold any value in islam either. arabs do weddings in te month of moharam… so do indonesians and other muslims.. its just us desis that have made up our own rulings for diff ocassaions. there is no chaliswa in islam, there are no khatums, no majlis’ .. if such things dont exist, then there really are no happy or sad days.