well i dont have anything in avoiding those 4-5 days if it makes them happy. i know for a fact that i wouldnt have to attend any majlis or anythin bcz my fiancee has never attended one in his whole life.
i had a fight with him because he was not going out with my on 10th. i was leaving the next day to khi.. i would not have fought but my lil sister made alot of fuss that he is cancelling at the last minute etc. although he told a week before that he wont come since its 10th mohorram.
i dont understand why people make this such a big issue .. but is anyone married in different sects?
didnt u and your sister make it a big issue by complaining that he cancelled at the last minute, when obviously you KNEW that 10th of moharram was gonna be coming BEFORE you booked your flight?