Well look at it this way… My aunty who was basically career mad, Didnt stop till she got the best. Mashallah she has got the best career. However in the mean time she never got married, Her mind was too much on ‘the perfect career’ Always too picky on who she wants to get married too… Now shes 41 and unmarried, And the only rishta she has now is a divorced Man whos like her 3rd cousin who has 2 kids. Thats a lesson to girls. Allah will also question her too. Shes really pretty too, So looks wont get you anything either.
My cousin who recently got engaged at 25 is now turning 26 and her engagment broke off. Time and time again i try to give advice to people that you should start looking at 19-20 because its a long process. I’ve learnt that. Just because your parents are looking no way does it mean you have to say yes. But please please dont say no for the sake of your career, Let it be, Inshallah you’ll get a amazing guy that will provide for you and you will never have to get a job. Or he will let you study when you please.