Trust me…when the right dude comes along, you’d want to do all these willingly.
Most of the issues u mentioned, living with in laws, him living in another state, the likelihood of him relocating all the time, etc…thsoe should be dealt with before you ever even agree on the rishta.
Its really not the end of the world to change schools or graduate a little bit later.. Lots of women end up willingly changing their career plans as well…