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Not fair. Why did Zarvan Ali get banned? I was just beginning to enjoy it :(
So I'm not the only one who enjoys reading Zarvan's posts :p
Re: marketing/sales advise to tableeghi jammat types
Not fair. Why did Zarvan Ali get banned? I was just beginning to enjoy it :(
So I'm not the only one who enjoys reading Zarvan's posts :p
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he is NOT banned…that’s his title that he chose to put up under his user ID some months back…he is alive and well on GS
so, don’t despair! ![]()
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I wonder Pir Sahib if you would make the same rule for Izraeel............
He does not even bother to knock!............
He simply comes in un announced.............:D
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I have no issues with intentions, and I will even say fine you show up unannounced, i get other unexpected ppl, door to door sales, jehovahs witnesses etc, but majority of time if I am not expecting anyone and doorbell rings I dont even bother, if it is someone I know they will just call and say dude we are standing outside. so I am not discriminating, I just dont answer the door in general.
Now so okay thats how they do their business, if they want to chat just for a few minutes, drop me a letter, after all they know my address :D
but lets just say no they are just at my door so if they ring the doorbell once and there is no answer, maybe wait and then ring once more and then go away. The current gang showing up presses the door bell again and again. they have showed up when my wife has been alone, when the kids have fallen asleep, and when I am on a work call. The time they came when i was free I talked to them, but that was kinda funny because it was three kids telling me about this home where they get together for ishaa, maybe it was their training run because aside from the 3 kids no one else got out of the Van-full-of-Pakistan. Last time they showed up, I had returned from 2 weeks of crazy travel, fallen sick and was at home alone trying to sleep, but eddie van helen of the doorbell fame annoyed me so much that I wanted to open the door and give them a piece of my mind.
That is my bigger issue, they just wont go away..they stalk you for like 5 minutes. with eddie van helen of doorbell fame, returning for a string of encore performances every 20 seconds.
As someone who's seen them since I was young and who appreciates the efforts they make, I agree with most of your points. If you have told them that you would like them to call first/make an appointment, then I don't think it's unreasonable to expect them to do accordingly. They should use better judgement in terms of time to visit someone and talk to them. Otherwise I've never personally found their showing up unannounced to be a problem. Whenever they come to my house, we serve them tea/coffee and biscuits and get to benefit from their reminder. Frankly with all the other stuff people try to shove down others' throats, I'd gladly listen to these guys instead.
As for the kids telling you about the house where they get together for isha, people also used to come to us and invite us to a house where the brothers of the locality are getting together to pray in jamaat. I've seen several masjids established through this type of effort, so all things considered, I think it's a good thing.
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I just want to add couple of free advises too
and before many of you judge me and label me as Kafir, I have no doubts about their intentions but its the techniques they use. I have many relatives (young and old) who go on these Jamaats and I always have same discussion with them.
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^ his house his rules.
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Its your loss
I know they knock at odd hours but they don’t come inside your house. They are just trying to share some hadees or some islamic knowledge , they are not even preaching you. I know sometimes people like me or my husband do mind odd hours but we only open doors because we will get sawab from ALLAH SWT and sometimes we don’t have time to listen ahadees this way we can. Its just your intentions or your thoughts. ![]()
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PS...I really respect what Tableeghi jamaat do.......but i have a few issues which make me stay away from them....
one......this stalking/forcing people two......making people leave their families for extended periods of time
I haven't seen them force anyone. As far as spending time away from family, I've seen many people separated from their families for even longer periods than TJs for the sake of both work and studies.
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Some how I tend to agree with x2 on this .... their etiquettes rather make Islam to look as a compulsion ..
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I wonder Pir Sahib if you would make the same rule for Izraeel............
He does not even bother to knock!............
He simply comes in un announced.............:D
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I thought that the stars and supporting cast actually did a really great job. Bella’s friends were engaging, funny and they played their roles very naturally. Billy Burke was low key and very good as Bella’s father, Kristen Stewart did a decent job, and I have to say that despite his severely sculpted eyebrows and uber-funky hair that I liked Rob Pattinson’s portrayal of Edward Cullen. I don’t know how closely the way he played the character matched the version in the book, but I thought that his uncertainty and awkwardness in light of how powerful he really was made him quite charming.
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@X2.......besides the rest of the issue.......i know one thing.........they have their 'naiki' register......the more walking 'steps' they take.......and the more people they manage to get into the meet.......the more their 'naiki' counter runs..........thats why they prefer this............
since the naiki register doesn't count email, sms, twitter, facebook etc.........once that is incoporated at teh back end of the naiki register.......u will see that happening..
PS...I really respect what Tableeghi jamaat do.......but i have a few issues which make me stay away from them....
one......this stalking/forcing people two......making people leave their families for extended periods of time
I also dont have any problem with tabgleeghi jammaat or what they think they are trying to do. I do find their tactics annoying, wasteful and in some cases their thinking very limited but i dont hate them.
i remember going upto a tablighi guy knocking on my door and asking him if 'I' was in, pretending to have some business with me, knocking with him, sharing frustrated looks with him.
a friend of mine once went out of a window because a tablighi saw him enter his room and followed.
its like a horror movie.
I remember the mohalla in Pakistan when you see little kids running and then older, u knew who was approaching your area :)
Someone I know got fed up and presented himself stark naked at his dorms room when they came knocking. Never to be bothered again.
thats better than if they started showing up everyday..with flowers.
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I wonder Pir Sahib if you would make the same rule for Izraeel............
He does not even bother to knock!............
He simply comes in un announced.............:D
The last time I checked these 'laws' as you call them were not made by me, but narrated by the prophet himself.
As someone who's seen them since I was young and who appreciates the efforts they make, I agree with most of your points. If you have told them that you would like them to call first/make an appointment, then I don't think it's unreasonable to expect them to do accordingly. They should use better judgement in terms of time to visit someone and talk to them. Otherwise I've never personally found their showing up unannounced to be a problem. Whenever they come to my house, we serve them tea/coffee and biscuits and get to benefit from their reminder. Frankly with all the other stuff people try to shove down others' throats, I'd gladly listen to these guys instead.
As for the kids telling you about the house where they get together for isha, people also used to come to us and invite us to a house where the brothers of the locality are getting together to pray in jamaat. I've seen several masjids established through this type of effort, so all things considered, I think it's a good thing.
Look, I may disagree with them on their views but its not personal. I am merely pointing out that their approach needs to get with the program. not only would it be appreciated by most people, they may get better return on their efforts as well.
Agree with the masjid building part, we have one in the immediate area, I have been involved in that before the land was bought, although not on some board or anything.
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it is my loss…if they show up at times I can not talk to them, or am not home, then I am unable to be there to share some hadees or some islamic knowledge , I cant open door to get sawab from ALLAH SWT.
so in order for me to get all the sawab, they must come at a time that I am home or am available. as i noted earlier, even if I am free I dont bother to go check who is at the door, could be jehovahs witnesses, could be kids selling magazine subscriptions, so its not against them only. and if they come at a time I am not home then it does not do anyone any good except for the oil companies because they burned some gas coming over, and power company for the electricity they used ringing the doorbell.. what else does it really solve?
no matter how great your intentions…if you are not at someone’s place when they are around, does it accomplish anything.
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gidsa and rizla ![]()
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Tablighi people are kind nice and considerate.
Phone rings at home when people sleep, but no one talks about them. ![]()
Besides if sleep is so important then, silence the bell and pull the phone cord. Praaablem solved.
Why blame sincere people?
They do not come for
chanda,
donation,
college fund…by nerdy looking fake college student to go overseas for fake social/humanitarian task and the age old brochure hiding behind their back tucked in the jeans when ringing the bell. ![]()
They come for YOU and YOUR benefit. No response, and they go away.
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tablighies are indeed a source for ajr and sawab. Allah commands to respond to calamities with sabr.
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tablighies are indeed a source for ajr and sawab. Allah commands to respond to calamities with sabr.
As an exemlary act one must read your posts with sabr and tahammul. Never laugh as I do as a sinner. Astaghfirullah. Tuaba Meri Tuaba.
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Oh people people don't get all judgemental and all. It's not like all of you open the doors and arms when the tableegh men knock at your door. Be honest here. How many of you send your kids or wives to the door and come up with some excuse that this isn't the right time?
Yes they are doing an amazing job of helping muslims restore and rejuvinate their faith. I don't think the OP was denying that. He was merely suggesting ways how they could be more effective.
Really, I would be a little hesitant to accomodate anyone, be it a tableegh person, a Kirby vacuum salesperson, anyone, if they came unannounced. It's normal isn't it? I mean you could be in the middle of organizing your closet after days and days or putting it off, or you could be just getting ready to put your little one to sleep. You may not be at the frame of mind to receive any teachings. I think they could use some pre-planning..something as simple as maybe distributing flyers to say they will be making rounds on Sunday afternoon in your neighborhood so please be available for a few minutes. I know many folks will disappear during that time, but many people will welcome them happily if they were expecting them.