Oh please, that’s absolutely hypocritical . The very subject of this thread is on the abuse of woman. Women who are mothers, daughters, sisters to somebody including you and the very person who the comment was geared at. There was no mud dragging at all. It’s a fact, we all have mothers, and if he cant put himself in the same shoes or other women in an abusive position on the same standard as his own mother/sisters then he should not be talking at all. Thats ridiculous. It just noise to take away from the focus of the actual topic. Diwana’s talking style is just as offensive since he can’t seem to leave his insults out of any of the points he wants to make. The use of “your stinky father on top of your mother” is an actual insult done by somebody above. Your talking about a thread on women and about abuse in a marriage possibly started by somebody who has no idea about either and all of a sudden the line is drawn when posters are told to put themselves in those shoes as these other woman because it could happen to anybody. What would your reaction be if this was any person in your family including your mother. If that’s offensive then that makes you/op/ diawana or whoever hypocritical because it is what it is.
Southie, I have no idea about what you and Reha discussed. I only understood that comment as directed towards Diwana, not you. I haven’t read all 1838373 pages of this thread. No ones cheering, it was a valid point in my opinion; put yourself in the same shoes and don’t be offended if somebody else does. Especially if your going to start a thread on a very sensitive and controversial topic to women, the center of the very subject.