Re: Marital Rape…
Isi liye maiN tum aisey hi baat kerta rahooN ga.
I did not disagree with the OP that marital rape is despicable and wrong. I disagreed when he try to portray that a certain Hadith condones marital rape, to which i said that it does not. And then he started generalizing it to all desi men, which was offensive to many posters, but seems you are Ok with such generlisations. Now if your abba was forcing his stinky self on your amma, doesn’t mean, you start generalising it to whole community.
And i do agree with one part, my attitude will depend upon ur behavior, taught it to ur spirtual brother shawns. Baqi, don’t try to hide ur manners and upbringing behind the topic, thats not the issue.