**Women need more that just visual to become intimate. Most of the more religious men I have met are not very attractive and its usually those who use Islam to find other women. The bearded ones - hands down unattractive to me. It might work for others.
The burden of appearing nice is always on the female. If a marriage lacks intimacy, look at the wife. Its men who complain about women using sex against them.
This thread is about women using sex against a man which leads to him raping her. Let’s stay focused:
A woman - much like a man - has needs.
If a woman is rejecting intimacy with her husband…there’s a reason for it. That reason CAN be fatigue, exhaustion, etc. But not always. If this is happening all the time, she just isn’t interested.
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**That sounds more like certain people…I don’t know anyone who is afraid of water. Man or woman. **
**The sweat smell is a man thing…its guys who’s armpits stink like a sewer…just ask the married girls since they do husband’s laundry. **
That was a typo…she feels really bad about herself.
Women cannot force themselves on a man - but they can definitely initiate things if they wanted their husband enough.
My point is…if you’re married and your wife does not initiate intimacy or enjoy it with you or makes you wait for weeks…do something about it. The correct thing to do: be rational, think maturely, see that something is lacking, remedy it and try again.
**Men and women ARE required to satisfy each other no matter how many wives a man has. **
No diwana, the answer is not always going to be in another woman’s arms because someday men and women will get old and the number of arms willing to accept them will also dwindle.
**That is also another thing which makes a woman bold enough to say no…who will want this guy? He doesn’t look good, take care of himself, doesn’t care about a woman’s needs, etc. Who will keep him? Janay do. Kahan jaye ga?
Aur sach mein…kahin nahin jata.
Please stop playing the blame game here. The thread is about marital rape and all I am doing is giving a woman’s perspective because no one ever talks about how important intimacy is for Muslim women in a marriage**.
