Absolutely agree to when you said a woman has to agree to have sex with the husband.
NOW:
Would you then agree that in case the husband does not find the woman as his wife attractive enough for ANY reason whatsoever and going out and spending time with other woman should be acceptable by those wives?
I know a woman (not from desi land) who is more than overweight ( the new term for them is ‘phat’)… and even her co-workers have mentioned her smelling from down there… when she comes close to these women and her husband has not made any move towards her in a while.
She still expects him to be pro-active and talks ill of him for not doing so.
My point is that it goes both ways:
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Try not to show, it is the men who are at fault if sexual attraction is failing between husbands and wives.
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**Women need more that just visual to become intimate. Most of the more religious men I have met are not very attractive and its usually those who use Islam to find other women. The bearded ones - hands down unattractive to me. It might work for others.
The burden of appearing nice is always on the female. If a marriage lacks intimacy, look at the wife. Its men who complain about women using sex against them.
This thread is about women using sex against a man which leads to him raping her. Let’s stay focused:
A woman - much like a man - has needs.
If a woman is rejecting intimacy with her husband…there’s a reason for it. That reason CAN be fatigue, exhaustion, etc. But not always. If this is happening all the time, she just isn’t interested. **
Forget about preparing for their husbands,
I say please at least take a bathe or shower…
Water is cheap women!!! **
Please take shower married or not. (I know a lot of desi and non-desi women who are scared of water even if they have a bathroom in their houses)
That sounds more like certain people…I don’t know anyone who is afraid of water. Man or woman.
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…and still have sweat smell from 6 months ago. J/K
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The sweat smell is a man thing…its guys who’s armpits stink like a sewer…just ask the married girls since they do husband’s laundry. **
As she was continued in brackets. 
When a woman is rejected sexually, she does not really feels pretty about herself.
And if she does that would be very unusual and weird of her to still feel pretty about her.
As to your other sentence:
Women in general cannot force themselves on men for not being strong enough physically.
If they were physically equal then,… they might have been forcing themselves over men too…
…and the feminists would have not much to argue about. 