OK.
The question asked by S_S was personal…as she (I assume this person is either a female or an extremist feminist or acting like one even if a male..not sure)
I had the choice to ignore or answer in light way.
I decided to answer in light way as it did make me laugh.
rainydays or whomever you represent as a multi,…
**READ carefully once for all:
**
1- It is not about winning any argument.
I agree with people a lot of time and only when they make sense or at least try to make sense. Period.
2- Stupid and illogical arguments, positions and laws regardless of how many people in the world agree to, will stay stupid and illogical. There is nothing I can do about it.
3- People is one part of the world do not agree to the laws in another part of the world.
4- People in same country do not agree to what their other countrymen living in another part of the SAME country agree upon.
5- from the beginning I talked about BOTH genders and I have mentioned this fact in my earlier post.
6- Go and read the thread before accusing me for being rigid.
7- The femanazis or so called fake liberators of of women are the ones who only spoke about women and wives.
If you read my posts above, I never condoned any aggression towards any woman including wife.
. Neither do I.
All throughout, I said there is no room to deny spouse his or her sexual need.
What is wrong with that?
NO.
When you gave example of this “Arab” man who acted irrationally and tried to force himself over his wife, that is plain and simple wrong.
(I am agreeing with your story here, just to agree with, otherwise, I am aware of Muslims, Pakistanis and Arabs made up stories and bias against them )
But if you read my posts above, you should have noticed what I said.
I said the marriage must have been in trouble even BEFORE this kind of event happens.
What makes a wife deny her husband sexual advances…despite she had baby of two months and stitches etc etc, as you described is not necessarily be true.
When marriage is on healthy term, BOTH MEN AND WOMEN try their best to please each other regardless what condition they are in.
In your scenario: Both were idiots. Regardless of who was more wrong or less. And, the husband was a jerk.
To be fair, you should make her responsible for creating the issue so big that a jerk ended up showing his jerkiness.
If denial has to be made then it has to be made in polite manner…and not making other partner feel disgusted, rejected or angry at least mentlly.
Moral:
Do not get blinded and be one sided.