Marital Rape......

[diwana]

Re: Marital Rape…

@_Passionate

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Blaming the victim much?? Whether you agree with the definition of marital rape or believe that there can be any sort of sexual abuse in a marriage or not, what the man did in the case Nina described, is still domestic abuse. HIm forcing himself onto his wife who has barely healed, is NOT HER fault. It is entirely HIS fault. There is no room for “regardless of whose fault it was” because it was CLEARLY his fault. If a man feels disgusted, rejected and angry at his wife who is in pain and cannot have sex then the problem is again with the mental state of that man not with the woman.

You say that a marriage is about a man and woman fulfilling each other’s needs. Well those needs aren’t just sexual. If the man needed sex in Nina’s example, then the woman needed love and care. You need to grow up and get your head out of whatever the hell kind of twisted land it currently resides in.

I edited my post above after reading your post to a certain extent.

Regardless:

Read all my posts: I cannot find the man solely responsible for the drama which ensues over denial.

BOTH are responsible.

If this fact your mind cannot absorb, then so be it.