Marital Rape......

[diwana]

Re: Marital Rape…

@redvelvet

WHOA!!!. Just because I gave the example of a father failing to provide for his child, you think that I approve of the father’s behavior? Seriously, Diwana? Such behavior on a father’s part is unjust and I do condemn it. But still Islam does not entitle the child to become physically aggressive with the father.

Similarly, a husband should not use force to have sex with his wife…such behavior is like that of an animal. Don’t limit the definition of animal to failure of foreplay/affection because ine is so consumed by lust/passion, whatever. Expand your mind to be on the safe side. A muslim tries to be on the safe side…and thinks about all possible behaviors (including anger, violence, etc) that reduce his dignity and that of another person’s. Islam has prohibited anger in general…Aqalmand k liye yehi hidayat kaafi hai…that the deen which admonishes against anger in general can NEVER justify a husband getting sex by by force/aggression.

You could have spared me from a long lecture by just agreeing that you do condemn the father denying care to his child or children.