Sure, but if a man or a woman cheats on their spouse because they are not getting satisfied…**they will still be answerable for their acts **because sex outside of marriage is after all a sin.
**Islam does not excuse infidelity under any circumstance - be it man or woman. **
**At the end of the day, if he wants to be pleased, he has to be willing to please as well. **
Romance, love, care, concern, setting the scene, making the mood for intimacy,** whatever she wants**…all of these things are part of pleasure.