diwana
January 29, 2014, 4:23am
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Re: Marital Rape…
^Maya Angelou was sent to live with her grandparents when her parents’ marriage ended.
Oprah Winfrey was born to an unwed, teenager mother and sent to live with her grandparents. Lance Armstrong never knew his birth father. Notorious B.I.G. was abandoned by his father when he was 2. Kate Beckinsale’s father died when she was 6. Halle Berry was abandoned by her father when she was 4. Mary J. Blige was abandoned by her father when she was 4. Orlando Bloom’s died when he was 4. Pierce Brosnan was abandoned by his father before his first birthday. Mariah Carey had little contact with her father after her parents divorce when she was 3. 50 Cent never knew his father and lost his mother when he was 8. Eric Clapton never knew his real father. He grew up thinking his grandparents were his parents and his mother his sister. Bill Clinton lost his father in a car accident 3 months before he was born. Stephen Colbert lost his father and two brothers in a plane crash when he was 10. Sean Combs was 3 when his father was murdered Jodie Foster grew up without a father; her parents separated before she was born. Jamie Foxx was abandoned by both his parents and raised by his adopted grandparents. Cary Grant grew up thinking his mother had abandoned him when she really was in a mental institution. Adrian Grenier grew up not knowing who his father was. Laird Hamilton was abandoned by his father when he was an infant. Samuel L. Jackson only met his father twice during his life. Jay-Z was abandoned by his father. Alicia Keys grew up without a father. Kid Cudi lost his father to cancer when he was 11. Martin Lawrence rarely saw his father after his parents divorced when he was 8. John Lennon grew up without a father and lost his mother when he was 17. Jet Li lost his father when he was 2. Lindsay Lohan grew up without a father while he was in prison. Shelby Lynne lost her mother and father in a murder suicide when she was 17. Madonna lost her mother to cancer when she was 5. Paul McCartney lost his mother to cancer when he was 14. Eva Mendes was raised by her single mother after her parents divorced. Marilyn Monroe grew up without a father. Demi Moore was abandoned by her father before she was born. Eddie Murphy’s father was killed when he was just 8. Jack Nicholson never knew his real father. Shaquille O’Neal grew up without his birth father. President Barack Obama met his father only once before he died in a car crash. Clive Owen was abandoned by his father when he was 3. Al Pacino grew up in his grandparents’ home with his mother. Audrey Hepburn was sent to boarding school at age 5; at age 6 her father walked out. Mariah Carey eventually became estranged from her father after her parents’ divorce when she was 3. Guy Pearce lost his father in a work related accident when he was 8. Mekhi Phifer never met his father. Sarah Polley lost her mother to cancer when she was 11. Ellen Pompeo lost her mother when she was 4. Gabrielle Reece lost her father when she was 5. Keanu Reeves was abandoned by his father when he was 13. Julia Roberts lost her father when she was 10. Alex Rodriguez was abandoned by his father when he was 7. Ronaldinho lost his father from a heart attack when he was 8. Jason Schwartzman lost his father to cancer when he was 13. Tupac Shakur grew up not knowing his birth father while his stepfather went to prison when he was 2. Anderson Silva was raised by his aunt. Gene Simmons was abandoned by his father when he was 3. David Spade was abandoned by his father.
No matter how many one brings these examples which could be doubtful, controversial and still debatable…,
one cannot defeat studies showing opposite conclusions.
I have discussed the similar topic a while ago, and have no intention to flood my post with counter argument.
It is well established, broken families do not always bring mentally healthy and balanced offspring and by bringing one or two great qualities cited in above examples does not mean, those people still were socially acceptable, balanced or adaptable.
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That means, being famous or having one or other extra talent does not mean the person himself/herself is not actually suffering.
**What I mean is that the measure of success is out of place here.
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Strong, gentle kind, loving caring men are desirable and abusers and rapists aren’t fit to live in society with other humans and are locked away in prisons so they may not harm members of civilised society.
No idea why you quoted me and said that.
My post talked about removing ANY possibility of the stupid term marital rape…once for all.