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Yuhiza , how are things now? are you feeling better? have you taken any steps?
All the best:)
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yuhiza is everything ok?
and korn66 (i think thats ur nick) is everythin ok with u?
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I'm sorry but I doubt he's ever gonna change.
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hey Yuhiza, i read ure situation, i really wish i had some help for you, i really feel for u honey, i cant imagine what you are going through, they dont lie when they say that life is hard.... all i can offer are prayers, Allah karay apki muskhil asaan ho jaye, Allah karay apko khushiyan bohot jaldi milain, INSHALLAH...
hope things get better very soon
all the best....
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It is not astonishing to give away things that do not suit to you... You can make sure from Quran.... just leave him....
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where is Yuhiza?......she hasnt replied back in like a month and a half....
im worried.....:(
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has anyone spoken to Yuhiza? how are things now?
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yuhiza, reply back!
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YUhiza tell him U dotn wanna change for him ..tell him k app jo bhi keraingi dilse keraingii..
i believe kuch bhi zabardasti ekrwaoo tu uska faida nahi hota ...DIlse ibadaat ki jaati ..dilse mohabbat ki jaati hai..:)>.kehna jab meray dil compleetly satisfied hojaye ga main kerloongi..:)..Isnhallah:)..and tell him u will pray k Ap wohi kerain JO Allah chahtay hain..tu Inshallah agar Allah swt chahtay hain tu app eventually sab sahi kaam kerein gi..:)..
..And if i were u ...tu shayad khud ko badalna chahti ..agar na badal sakhtii tu kehtii ..theekh i tried everythign ..things didnt work out tu koi nahi akaili reh loongi..saath reh ker dukh deney se behtar hai alag ho jayain..if i were u ..i would ahve prolly said to my husband, "i think we both need time...i tried changing i tried doinmg eveyrthign u wanted...but whats the point if we both r still not happy..so lets give it a break for a while"..bus..:)
..and shayad agar 2 /3 ssaalon main woh badal jaaty tu theekh werna..kHud Move on ker leytii..coz ISlam main ijazat hai seperate honay ki..U TRIED NA AND ALLAH SWT SEES IT...
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DEar KORN.
fiker not...
jab admiyo ko chordh tab ehsaas hota hai k kuch bhi na raha..just elave him kuch deir k liyee coz u can live without Him ...u earn ..and father...ki fikker na kerain...FAther sirf earn hi kertey hain na ..waisay bhi agar buhut pyaar hoga bachoon se ..tu he will definately come see them and take their repsonisbility:)>.waisay bhii app khud soch lain ...Appkay bachooon pe aisay dad ka kiya affect apardeyga..they;ll b mentally imbalanced...Fights ka bura impact hota hai bachoon pe..:)...And trust me..CANADA main mostly akailia uratain and unkay kids hi rehtey hain..lol...infact sauga is knwn for dat..infact i soemtimes feel dat parents shld move on...and agar koi aur unse shaadi kerna chahyee and bachoon ki zimmaadaari uthaan chhayee tu go ahead:).
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dafa karo yaar tum uk main rah kar itna kyuon mar rahi ho! he is noth worth wasting another moment on him. get on with your life. world is quiet big, u'll find someone much better.