Re: Marital Problems
Please don't quit your job. You really need it for your own independence, sanity and peace of mind. You've already noted that he's trying to break you, and I agree with Mirch when she says he has a major inferiority complex.
You say he becomes aggressive ... ignores you or makes sarcastic comments. This is his way cause he knows it upsets you and brings you down. You need to ignore it when he does this, carry on as normal, and be yourself. Once he sees that his behaviour isn't getting to you any longer, he'll most likely stop doing that ..... but it will take a while as he's been doing this to you for 2 years. Don't become a weak coward (I know you are not a coward, but he sees you as one) when he behaves like this. Stand up to him. I'm not telling you to be rude or nasty, but once he sees that his behaviour isn't affecting you, he will think twice about doing it again next time. Right now, he wants to put you down and he does. Don't let him.
Please tell your parents everything. Like someone else above said, your father will hurt even more if he knows you are suffering in silence.
Stop giving him money. That's the impression I got when you said he likes to spend all your earrnings. Simply say no.
He's really living the life here. He treats you badly, puts you down, mentally tortures you and spends your money.
You aren't doing yourself any favour by silently putting up with this. You need to take a stand and it won't be easy, but I'm positive you can do it. You sound like a calm and intelligent girl, inshallah you will get through this.