Marital Problems

[SaadiaB]

Re: Marital Problems

@Mamaof3

I have a question that maybe you should think about for a while…Why do you want to keep this man as your husband? Is it simply that you do not want the scar of divorce on your reputation or is it that you see something/anything in this man that makes the marriage worth working on?

I hate to say that he sounds pretty hopeless but there it is. Its not that he’s a bad person per se, he is just extremely culturally different and seemingly very averse to communicating and/or working on the marriage. He seemingly wants things his way and thats that - like you have no say. Any marriage can fail if there is no communication and no compromise.

In the short run, if you want to work on saving the marriage, you need to get him to communicate and to compromise. If there is even slight interest on his part to do these things then there may be hope yet.

I do wish you the very best either way things turn out. Hang in there.

Never too late for a word of wisdom. :k: