Re: Marital Problems
After reading the first post, The best "first step" which I feel is something very easy but at the same time difficult too. Those who have tried it have ALWAYS got good results IMMEDIATELY but some how beacuse of our weak imaan (muslims like me) we usually don't give it a try. If you try it, I promise you would get good results within few days, by the grace and mercy of Allah (s.w.t). It doesn't require any money or efforts only tears of sincerity infront of someone who deserves it.
It is :
At night when everyone is sleeping, move to a room where you are all alone, pick up a jaye namaz and after offering two nafil, start praying from heart. Tell all your "Shikwa & Shikayaat", all the pain you have been suffering from & everything to Allah (swt).
O' Allah (swt) I have no one who can help me but only YOU! Please forgive me for all the disobedience which I did in the past. I promise if you solve this problem for me, I would always try my level best to become a good muslimah. Nothing is difficult for you, my mental capabilities are too limited to understand the solution of this problem, but with your only ONE order everything can become good. We humans are too weak, but you are the ultimate and Almighty. You know that I tried my best all I could to improve the relationship but it hasn't worked till now. I have come to your door with a lot of hope, If you also reject me then where would I go.........
Whatever happens after you do this, inshaAllah would be the best for you in all ways, which you would realize with time. Allah would create the circumstances, the end result of which would be the best for you. Wallahu Alam
p.s. If you feel you have been doing something basic against islamic teachings (like not praying five times regularly....etc.) kindly think about it and make decisions which you feel you should make.
Sister, May Allah (swt) bless you and your family with all the blessings of this life and hereafter.