Re: Marital Problems
Dear Yuhiza,
After reading the entire bit from A to Z what u have written, i have to say my problem is the same as yours but of course different location and situation.
I have been married for 3 years now and have 2 daughters all thnx to my husband. YES i work as well. My husband hates me working... everyday we have an argument at home because of my work. YES i earn a lot more than him! whether i cook, serve him or give him love, he still is the same...
i m having 2 daughters now, but its impossible to live with him anymore... for the past 1 yr and a half i have shifted with my parents, because he beat me n tear open my forehead, result too much blood came out.. at that time i was pregnanat with my second child.
My parents have done everything for me where as this ....... didnt had this much guts to pay even our daughters birth hospital bills because we had a fight n i was both my babies times with my mum, so he didnt pay... thats what he says
im so depress cant tell, my parents dont want me to end this relation as im having daughters now....
Yuhiza! my husband has the same 1 million % attitude as urs!!! im tired of making him understand... which he will not!!!
Please advise, shall i leave him for good, but can the children survive w/o a father? :-(
Korn666...May Allah grant you the best of this world and akhirah for your sabr (ameen).Why don't you just take a leave from your work for 10 days or so but stay at your own house.Tell him that you are not going to go back to the work anymore...see how it goes for those couple of days..if he supports you and your daughters financially well enough..see if he changes at all in those days.If this works out ,well and good ,if not then just do the istikhara and make decission according to your istikhara.