Re: Marital Issues
I dont discuss any disagreements/conflicts/issues with anyone. they are too trivial and termporary to spend energy on, and if they are more than just trivial, its easier for us to work through them anyways.
I have seen how smallest issues become gossip fodder in khandans and community, and how well intentioned and not so well intentioned people create bigger issues due to their clueslessness/stupidity or evilness respectively.
That was one of the first thing begum and I agreed on before we got married, our issues are our issues, we will solve it, only when a major issue is lingering, has not been resolved in a satisfactory manner will we bring someone else in and it will be a counselor. have not needed it so far alhumdulillah :)