MAN/WOMAN Friendship.

thread < after discussing this thread. (sometimes banging my head :mad: )

Question for Everyone.

Every couple has there issues/problems, and a time comes when they need to talk to a friend, vent out there frustrations etc. (so far so good).

What if that friend was of the opposite gender?

Would you have a problem with your husband/wife talking to their friends of many many years, who just happens to be of the opposite gender.

What is the difference. A friend is a friend. why look at them as man or woman. Why cant guys be friends with a girl or Girls with Boy, without being told that there is no way they can just be friends.

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:frusty: ive already told you why :mad:

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i need a second opinion. :snooty:

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I dont think there is any problem but

Dani bhai how would you feel if bhabhi ji's friend who is a guy calls at 2 in the morning every day and talks to her for good 2 hours.. how would you feel about that?

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^ life suxxs

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its a two-way lane .. 'nuff said..

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Men and women can never be "just friends" it may start out like that but it develops into something more sooner or later because one of them starts getting the wrong idea

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I've been friends with girls who are now married and/or in a long term relationship. no one got the wrong idea.

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No one calls at 2 am. :halo:

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I have to say i'm a bit of a hypocrite - it should be ok for me to have frineds of the opposite gender, but whether i'll tolerate such friendships in any future partner will need a lot of thinking and analysing!

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you must be ugly as sin.

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:hehe: yup’s, :slight_smile:

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some ppl here are so mean...just because a guy who is honarable and treat a girl like a good friend and not some kind of a piece of meat he is automatically assumed ugly....grow up guys

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I've been friends with guys who are now married and/or in a long term relationship. No one got the wrong idea.

And nobody has ever called me at 2 am. And even if they did, it would obviously be an emergency and that just doesn't count.

And I dare you ashtray......

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how many times am i gonna tell you!!!..you dont know what they are feeling!!! :mad: you cant guarantee that their feelings for you will never change.

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:hehe: Muzna, it has got nothing to do with how I look like, imy point was that nobody is concerned of their spouse’s friends if they are not so good looking. Just like the eve teasing pics are only of not so good looking men, seeTiaN by hadsome men are not considered lewedness by women.And you being a super mod should know about dares on gupshup.

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yes you are a hypocrite:)

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At leats i’m honest enough to admit it :snooty:

Women can usually get the wrong idea, whilst men don’t tend to do that. So i’d worry that the girls would misinterpret his interest.

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true…women are more likely to misinterpret cues from their male counterpart .however there are some men that tend to do that as well (based on my personal experience).

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True. I never thought about that.

and True again…I should know about dares…but I don’t.