MAN/WOMAN Friendship.

[Femme_Fatale]

Re: MAN/WOMAN Friendship.

seetian and chichorapun by all kinds of men ARE considered lewd by women. chichorapun can make the bestlooking of guys repulsive instantaenously.

[Muzna]

Re: MAN/WOMAN Friendship.

I take my comment back.
Femme is right.
I just tried picturing one of my really attractive friends whistling at someone.......yuck. He started to look pretty ugly.

[danial]

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so other then muzna, no one else is a decent person. :halo:

[K4plan]

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@The Voice

Men and women can never be "just friends" it may start out like that but it develops into something more sooner or later because one of them starts getting the wrong idea

Yup, unless the other is absolutely ugly or obese.

Ever noticed how youngsters choose ugly friends of the opposite of sex to confide in when relationships go wrong? lol.

[Sara516]

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@K4plan

Yup, unless the other is abolutely ugly or obese.

[K4plan]

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@Sara516

LOL, its so common.

[Aish]

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Who wants to friendship me?

[PyariCgudia]

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I find some of the responses here humorous, given that here, all the females are openly speaking to guys and joking with them, and vice versa as well.

If it was that darn horrible to be friends with the opposite sex, then ladies please, stop responding to Danial's threads.

[K4plan]

Re: MAN/WOMAN Friendship.

@PyariCgudia

I find some of the responses here humorous, given that here, all the females are openly speaking to guys and joking with them, and vice versa as well.

If it was that darn horrible to be friends with the opposite sex, then ladies please, stop responding to Danial's threads.

Whos Danial? White ppl on an asian forums claps.. what an achievement.

Oh wait - its another wannabe.

[Krypton]

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i think tehre wud come a time wen tehre wud b attraction between the man and the wman "friend"

[Pinnacle]

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@danial shah

thread < after discussing this thread. (sometimes banging my head :mad: )

Question for Everyone.

Every couple has there issues/problems, and a time comes when they need to talk to a friend, vent out there frustrations etc. (so far so good).

What if that friend was of the opposite gender?

Would you have a problem with your husband/wife talking to their friends of many many years, who just happens to be of the opposite gender.

What is the difference. A friend is a friend. why look at them as man or woman. Why cant guys be friends with a girl or Girls with Boy, without being told that there is no way they can just be friends.

i definitely dun hav a problem.
its all abt trust and putting unnecassary jealousy aside.
me and hubby both have that understanding. juz make sure u dun reach a stage where u make ur spouse feel less important or less needed.

[yaasir]

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Nothing wrong with it Danial. Like someone said above that its a two way lane. If you have friends of the opposite gender and you should be ok with the girl having a friend of the opposite gender as well. As long as it stays to just friends...its fine with me :)

[danial]

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@yaasir

Nothing wrong with it Danial. Like someone said above that its a two way lane. If you have friends of the opposite gender and you should be ok with the girl having a friend of the opposite gender as well. As long as it stays to just friends…its fine with me

I have no problem with it.

K4plan, how is my name a white name

[PrinceMS]

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Opposite Gender Friendship possible: Yes

Its rare because in our culture men / women interaction is v.limited and it hasn't grown for people to understand what are the ethics of this special relationship

[sidz_angel]

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there has to be a limit as to how deep a friendship is between a guy and a girl..
IMO, after marriage your spouse SHOULD become your best friend (i am not saying is HAS to happen but it shud)
yes freidns of the opposite are ok, but to a limit, you cant tell treat them the way you used to before marriage cos unless your spouse has utter trust in you there are bound to be problems unfortunatley

[COCO]

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@danial shah

so other then muzna, no one else is a decent person. :halo:

muzna..is decent…true..

why did you open this thread…?

[Dushwari]

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platonic relations are not easy to maintain.
unfortunately, ur own mind and the mind of the opposite gender friend can
have bends which u may not anticipate.
so i will be cautionate in having a platonic relationship.
guys, especially feel that the female friends are somehow an emorional and imtimacy back up.
and it does not sit well with anybody self respecting.

@danial shah

thread < after discussing this thread. (sometimes banging my head :mad: )

Question for Everyone.

Every couple has there issues/problems, and a time comes when they need to talk to a friend, vent out there frustrations etc. (so far so good).

What if that friend was of the opposite gender?

Would you have a problem with your husband/wife talking to their friends of many many years, who just happens to be of the opposite gender.

What is the difference. A friend is a friend. why look at them as man or woman. Why cant guys be friends with a girl or Girls with Boy, without being told that there is no way they can just be friends.

[PrinceMS]

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" female friends are somehow an emorional and imtimacy back up. "

LOL generally men don't need emotional and intimacy (as much as women do). If we don't need it in the first place, why would we need a backup?
Although, There maybe other reasons... - and above all - All these reasons holds true for either side of the gender.

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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It is stupid to suggest that simply cos there is a gender difference it is inevitable that something will happen...

My main issue is that sometimes friends can be possessive overt their friends...and this is boys and girls...

girls are worried that their friend wont spend as much as time with her now that you've arrived and will be a ***** to you...

and iv seen a lot of occasions where the girl has no feeling for her friends who are boys but the boy has some clear love for the girl...

It can be annoying but remember they are friends and have shared a lot so be good to their friends...to the girls so they dont see you as that much of a threat and to the boys just so your girlfriend will like your flexibility...

This is a worst case scenario which i have seen...but often there is no problem...my female friends are happy to see me not single...although a couple maybe not...and for quite a few girls iv met...there friends get on with me cos im naturally quite inclusive of them and dont seem like im taking their friend away...

[ImranQ]

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@danial shah

A friend is a friend. why look at them as man or woman. Why cant guys be friends with a girl or Girls with Boy, without being told that there is no way they can just be friends.

Agree!
TAlks about developing feelings for eachother is BS! Friend is a friend, girl or boy shouldn't matter.