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My hubby would be more important to me then my future kids.. ..
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Dont you mean he will be more important to you than your future tadpoles
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mamaof3
forget about sperm or egg donation, from what I have read even gestational surrogacy is not allowed i.e. a case were the man and wife both can produce good quality sperm and egg but can not have a child due to damaged tubes or in worse cases a hysetrectomy.
While I can see the issues for sperm or egg donation, I think gestational surrogacy is a whole diff area, and something that has not been properly discussed by knowledgeable religious scholars
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there is a fine line between ADMITING something natural or happend due to an accident.. depending upon the second party, will they be UNDERSTANDING that fine line or not, i’m pretty sure if i will ATLEAST morally mention it .. cuz hiding things never does any good. REGARDLESS how embarrasing/obscene they are..
about tests, it gets tricky pretty quick .. cuz then according to lusi’s idea, that it only makes it fair for the girl to take tests too..
i know of some couples.. happily married, 5 years for one, 7 years for another.. and no sign of a kid .. went to testings and all that, and docs just said.. its allah ki deen, there are couples out there .. with NO medical problems.. pregnancy just.. doesnt take part..
its a very torturing situation for both parties..
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^^ not me...it's lussi
by the way I agree with what you are saying
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I think we should not leave our wife in this case, what we need to do just go for adoption. This is best solution as i see it.
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Tadpoles be to frogan kay bachay (kids) hee hotay hain na..
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lusi and lussi, stop confusing ppl 
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yo fo real.. i think lusi should change his/her nick..
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^^ no I had registered with this nick before you, so you change :p
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Thats what I like in Malaysia where Bride and Groom tobe HAS TO GO THROUGH DETAILED PHYSICAL CHECKUP and reports are MADE AVAILBLE to both BY LAW. This takes care of many problem up front.
I believe every gal and boy has a right to know about the physical deficiencies of any kind before marriage.
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WHAT A JERK!!!!!
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People. Consider this scenario.
A woman gives birth to a baby boy. Due to some circumstances that baby boy gets taken away from her. She then adopts another baby boy roughly the same age.
30 years later in a freak coincidence her original baby boy comes to meet her. She doesnt know that he is her real son (and neither does he). Both the guys are sitting in the living room. Which of the two does she consider her son? The one that she RAISED, not the one that she gave birth to.
So all you tragic people who cant give birth to kids have faith in God and adopt one!!! Its not that bad you know. Having an heir to continue your own bloodline is really not that important. Bloodline is an abstract concept. It can be transferred with proper upbringing and lots of love, not just sperm and ovaries.
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This is what i call the clash of the "lus(s)is" lol. Imagine if someone made the id "lusssi" lol then it would be:
lusi
lussi
lusssi
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Cheegum, you are very right. I know some lovely families with adopted children who are more close-knit and together than "biological" families.
The thing is that the majority (?) of couples want to try on their own and exhaust those possibilities first. When you love someone truly and deeply, one of the best gifts you can give to each other is the miracle of life created thru your love. So its worth the heartbreaking effort many times.
Shouldnt matter in the end if the couple ends up with children that they love and raise together, whether the littles are "biological" or not.
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:-) what cheegum is saying isnt fictional.. it actually occured..
but on the topic of male infertility.. i dont see a harm in admitting upfront .. rather than have 'anaa' ka masla take over it..
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personal & societal issue hey. all people need to realize that it is not always womens' reproductivity that has some defect or is dysfunctional.
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I believe every gal and boy has a right to know about the physical deficiencies of any kind before marriage.
Ok, so what if it showed that you had some serious physical issues? How would you feel when ladies would start rejecting you (if not already) left and right based upon your physical make-up?
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well physical checkup that looks for STDs and all are checked for. Its complete disclosyre prior to marriage. I mean eventually the other perosn will find it out anyways, so why nto before marriage. now I am sure that this is not where someone's specific measurements and domensions are given but its basically a complete physical and blood work report, whch makes sense.