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I don’t think Islam allows that because it will be the egg of a woman, the man is not married to. Also what if she can not carry a baby?
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the majority of people will have a child within 2 years of marriage...its only when it goes beyond that time that people should start to get abit concerned. however this is a MINORITY situation so why are people stressing so much about it.
even for those who have problems conceiving....there are so many successful treatments available.....we had a 2 hour lecture in uni about this yesterday..
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Now, I know why you were entangling with me about Mukhtaran Mai Issue. I was thinking how can a man reply like a women, but o well, I came to now you were a prikly woman, a MA MA of 3 and not MAMOO of 3..... But o well, once again, I think you had to tell the GS predator males that you are taken before they could seduce you.....
And now you, the most genius, are suggesting that a man should be asked to go for sperm count testing by the method you described before marriage.... WOW.... here we have another intelligent comment..............
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Huh, who cares .....
besides Mamaof3 is taking of pure scientific knowledge. you will be chastized for bringing in religion.... You are living in stone age. Be modren .....
Hum, God Bless You :)
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I want to adopt kids either way. So it wouldnt matter if my fish dont swim or your eggs dont hatch. :p
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to be honest if i found out BEFORE being married that my soon-to-be cant have kids i dont know what i would do...depends on many factors.
if i find out AFTER marriage that my husband cant have kids.....then i would adopt. i would nvr leave him no matter what.
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cheegum and angel eyes once again 
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women get married because they want kids,guys get married cause they wanna get laid.most guys probably would nt worry about not being able to have kids,they would just want a healty sex life.infact there was a study done on married guys with kids by harvard university it showed that having kids reduces guys testosterone levels cause it makes them feel like crap.
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wb impulse 
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so not true!! rolls eyes many women get married for reasons other then procreation...just like many men especially muslim men want kids...its not all about sex for them.
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Yeah what AE said way, way above.
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^it is true in general.girls dream about having a family more than kissing their guy .it applies to pakistani women especially.i remember talking to this girl and her fantasy was wearing a laal ghahgra on her wedding..i was like is that supposed to be romantic or something
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very true. majority of gupshup guys give a bad name to men.
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i am not talking about sex only,sex is just soemthing that happens along the way.i mean having somebody around who u can love is more important to me than wedding dresses and noisy kids.
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here u basically said its all about sex...and now ur saying its not...make up ur mind :)
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Wow would people really leave their spouse because the other was infertile?
IMHO that is so cruel...it's not something a person can control and it can be a very difficult burden to bear...
Don't infertile people have the right to marry too? Is marriage only about bearing children? What about companionship and love and sharing dreams?
Besides there are so many children out there needing good families...I know that perhaps adopting is not the same as having your own...but what a beautiful thing to be able to do...
And to those who would leave without a second thought for their life partner, toba that anything similar should happen to you in the future and your spouse decides that you are a 'worthless' husband/wife and leaves you with your grief...
My tuppence worth
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unfortunately it happens
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well for most guys who get married it is.not for me personally.i was referring to my other post.women are less sexual than men its a fact thats why they desire men for things like money,family etc more than intimacy.
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Really? Because after reading your posts, people could say the same thing about you.
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I guess it depends on the reason why you're getting married. If you're getting married to someone you barely know or care about initially, and you're really only interested in having a "family", although you probably have no clue what that really means until later on after marriage...then I can see why fertility would be such a big deal, and why one would go so far as to ask their partner to do a fertility test, and why one would turn down a partner because they failed that test.
Call me a crazy peanutty nut, but I think marriage is more than that. There are always options of articial means of fertilization, and there is always adoption. Best to ask the partner directly on how they feel on this situation.
I personally could care less. If I can avoid childbirth and just adopt, I think that would be a gift from heaven.