Re: Male bashing…is it a crime to not like you back?..
I find nothing wrong with what he said…it *is *true… but it doesn’t apply to Dush’s situation… both men and women often go and try to avenge the “insult” of being rejected and end up painting the opposite sex as trash… the same way many people here badmouthed men and called them pigs and dogs…
Its not important what happens in your life, its what you do about it that really counts. By continuing to think, talk, and cry about this, you’re only letting him continue to hurt you long after he’s gone… life is tough, and you’re equally tough, if not more Dush.. dont let him kill your soul… move on and prove to him and to yourself that you’re better off without him…
Re: Male bashing...is it a crime to not like you back?...
I dont call such people psychos though. Its human nature and there is nothing anyone can do anything about it. And its specially wrong if some one whose already in a fragile situation is pin pointed in a thread.
So I think I do find it wrong. But then again, if we all thought the same, life would be very boring.
Re: Male bashing...is it a crime to not like you back?...
Lol i see the attacks coming...
Firstly Neelam4Life2006...you need to work on presenting an argument better...your point if thats what it is lacks any justification...feel free to elaborate otherwise i believe that is classed as a personal attack no MODS?...
DutchPaki...
Firstly your point about not reading things which annoy you is ridiculous...if anything we tend to address more things that annoy us than things that dont so come up with a better point in future...if anything thats why you replied cos you were annoyed at what i wrote so maybe take your own advice...
And as for pinpointing in threads...this thread isnt dedicated to Dushwari...in regards to her i think shes OTT i do...lifes a *****...it serves no purpose to wallow in your own self pity...
You mention it is human nature to get hurt...of course it is but my issue is how one deals with it...when someone doesnt care for someone who loves them it doesnt make them a monster im afraid which is mostly how they are presented...any girl or boy who has loved a person who hasnt loved them back has ridiculed that person when infact their only sin was that they didnt have feelings for the other person and rather than leading them on chose to break things off...Its human nature to hurt its the work of psychos to ridicule...
Impulse...
Actually the crux of my argument is that most of the time the guy is actually decent...his only sin was to break something off...infidelity etc are different things and in that case the ridicule is justified...its just ridicule happens for all sorts of reason many unjustified...
Dushwari...
Sorry but your holding onto something which isnt there...things in life mostly dont go to plan...Sabriyas given you good advice...lifes a *****...its how you deal with it that matters...
Re: Male bashing...is it a crime to not like you back?...
Nah no MODS cuz all MODS agree with me I guess. Why dont you stand up for youself besides calling for help from the MODS. What a loser.... Here's some advice, DEAL WITH IT!!!
Lol i see the attacks coming...
Firstly Neelam4Life2006...you need to work on presenting an argument better...your point if thats what it is lacks any justification...feel free to elaborate otherwise i believe that is classed as a personal attack no MODS?...
DutchPaki...
Firstly your point about not reading things which annoy you is ridiculous...if anything we tend to address more things that annoy us than things that dont so come up with a better point in future...if anything thats why you replied cos you were annoyed at what i wrote so maybe take your own advice...
And as for pinpointing in threads...this thread isnt dedicated to Dushwari...i think shes OTT i do...lifes a *****...it serves no purpose to wallow in your own self pity...
You mention it is human nature to get hurt...of course it is but my issue is how one deals with it...when someone doesnt care for someone who loves them it doesnt make them a mnster im afraid which is mostly how they are presented...any girl or boy who has loved a person who hasnt loved them back has ridiculed that person when infact their only sin was that they didnt have feelings for the other person and rather than leading them on chose to break things off...Its human nature to hurt its the work of psychos to ridicule...
Impulse...
Actually the crux of my argument is that most of the time the guy is actually decent...his only sin was to break something off...infidelity etc are different things and in that case the ridicule is justified...its just ridicule happens for all sorts of reason many unjustified...
Dushwari...
Sorry but your holding onto something which isnt there...things in life mostly dont go to plan...Sabriyas given you good advice...lifes a *****...its how you deal with it that matters...
Re: Male bashing...is it a crime to not like you back?...
Neelum4Life...
You give yourself unneccesary credit...i dont need help from the mods...i just hope they show some consistency in how they define personal attacks...
And as for defending myself...did you read what you wrote...you didnt actually make a point so i dont actually have anything to defend...you simply stated something without providing a reason...i can understand that you may not be intelligent enough to grasp this so ill give you an example...imagiine a lawyer telling a jury that 'that guys and evil criminal and should be given the death penalty' and leaves it at that...can you see how there is no argument and therefore how it is a pointless thing to write or say...hopefully when you get to high school you will actually learn some skills and actually find yourself able to present an argument...dumb girl...
PakiPride...
The post is actually aimed at both genders...and im not suggesting all im just suggesting its commonplace...some people do know how to deal with things correctly and dont hold people accountable for doing the right thing...
SweetIf...
Im simply stating that many men who are good enough guys get the same flak that a guy gets if he has actually mistrated the girl...im not disputing that men do treat women badly, cheat on them etc...but there are many men who have simply committed a crime of not having feelings for the other and get treated in the same manner as someone who has actually wronged them...
Re: Male bashing…is it a crime to not like you back?..
**YEah! I mean if you breaks someone’s heart or don’t show up on a date or something you can’t think that they will have no problem with it. When Girls are angry, they have to take their anger out on something, kinda like me:smack:.I just can’t help myself sometimes:bummer: Actually, I have NEVER been able to help myself:bummer: **
and Why is that? Just because This is LIFE!
so how do you like my philosphy or whatever it is:faizy:
Re: Male bashing…is it a crime to not like you back?..
I think i had somewhat similar “philosophies” at that age…you simplified it, and sometimes that’s all we need to do, instead of making things sooooo complicated… so yeah ur perfectly right, when someone gets hurt and upset, its only natural to have to let it out some way.
Re: Male bashing…is it a crime to not like you back?..
yeah, you see, when people are mad ( girls in partiular:bummer:why are we so emotional?) they make things WAY more complicated than they really are. Why? 'cuz they can’t think straight. that’s just the way it is:bummer:
** I have gone through not thinking straight..it is SO not fun:bummer: and when you come back to ur senses, you think of yourself as a bad person for how angry you were. Well, at least that’s how I am:bummer: **
Re: Male bashing...is it a crime to not like you back?...
I don't mean to be nosy, but you're speaking from expeirience, right? if yes.... Trust me, It may not seem like it, but you'll eventually forget about it...
! Sarathat was great:clap: That’s jus what happens to me:clap: