Re: Male bashing...is it a crime to not like you back?...
Dushwari...
Im genuinely not trying to be rude but you do put yourself on a pedestal...one thing iv learnt is its always easy to blame everyone else for your lifes problems and yet we never look to what we did wrong...i get the impression that you genuinely believe that you have always been perfect and people have always wronged you...i refuse to believe its that black and white...
You mention that you learn from experience...you havent learnt anything...all you have decided is i am perfect and men are bad to me...thats not learning and its this kind of self righteous attitude possibly bordering on arrogance that will continue to damage your relations...its always someone else fault with you and you have to realise that you are fallible too...
You state that men need HEALING and SELF REALISATION...agreed they probably do but so do you...
NiaKhan...
That argument about shes a whore and the guys a player doesnt hold up...a girl is a whore with guys and girls...actually mainly girls if shes been with a few guys...when a guys been around...girls think he a whore but guys rate him...
The reason there is a difference is many girls prefer guys who get girls...it makes them feel like they have achieved something...whilst in a guys case its no achievement being with a girl whos been with loads of guys...so its actually female mentality which leads to this difference in attitude not males...
As for me personally...im not concerned about how many guys a girl has been with before me as long as she is good to me and she cares for me...numbers are irrelevant really...btw there is a difference with a girl having been with 5 guys and a girl having had one night stands with five different guys...like i said life doesnt always go to plan so you cant judge someone on how many people they have been out with...
PakiPride...
Firstly i stated 'some' in my argument...im not disputing that men can be as insecure and as melodramatic as girls can be...stalkers and psychos exist in both genders i wont dispute that...
KoolKomal...
Im not disputing ones right to be upset...thats human nature but can you appreciate how it is unfair to blame everything on the guy especially when he hasnt done anything wrong...if you fell for a guy and he doesnt fall for you your going to be upset but that doesnt make the guy bad...