Re: Male bashing...is it a crime to not like you back?...
thanks Nia.
this is an honest gesture. it might feel very strong to some women and men.
What will happen next, only time can tell...
Men must learn to recognize that they cannot keep on annoying women, on confusing them, on being sly or clever. That sooner, they are caught in their own traps.
Who is right, who is wrong, and who has been wronged – it is all clear as mud to them. Yet, they act aloof.
I hope and pray that, every woman or man, who goes through opposite gender
relationship building or breakings, learns the ethics of making the
right decisions, and avoiding heart aches and breakups, which are solely based on self-raised doubts and people are not realizing the contents of the spirit of the other honest side, but merely its appearances.
Time, resources, energy, personal investment in a relationship as a good will of entrusting your every own emotions of love and kindness, & seemingly deeply confided-in aspirations of a smooth and content future t o g e t h e r, are not trivia game cards – they are promises made, and when they are violated, they are promises broken.
I do but I don’t believe in the observation that research even shows that over all,
men’s' emotions are mute or suppressed, so it is somehow do able for
them to relinquish or forsake ANY good, that is shown to them.
Honest and modest women are not dispensable strips of chewing-gum.
And, when it comes to a decision by one side, to leave, before marrying, the other side must always patiently inquire and seek the reasons as to why. The unfairness of it, stares people in their face and it is impossible to believe that they do not feel it.
Cultural values, religious teachings, and personal moral accountability all have also, I think, placed a lot on men, as their obligations, towards women.
What happens to that all, I wish every man could give it a good thought, before he conveniently amused himself in agony of the woman he plans to betray or betrayed.
Personal relevance, even in this case, could not make any difference, as it was carried forward under the assumption that if it works, great, if I felt like it, only then.
-Very untrue for true love
-Really sad and sorry for the one who acts in such a way!
men need A LOT OF HEALING AND SELF REALIZATION, especially if they want to LOCATE a partner that is GOOD ENOUGH or them, or fully matched their own characters.
This reassurance and revalidation business - for elevating men from their own despair in case of such men – they will see, that not everyone would make the time to do it for the likes of men who know only to utilize human emotions of women, as their own temporary safety nets, from insecurities of their
own. May God help them, Amen.