Making Time for your SO

Lifestyle Relationships
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We’re all busy people, and with GS, our time is even more limited. How much time do you set aside for your significant other?

Do you talk to them daily?

Is it considered acceptable to talk to them once a week, or is that pretty offensive?

Just wondering. :slight_smile:

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Re: Making Time for your SO

:eek: once a week!!!
try daily
GS can be once a week.
Priorities my lady priorities … :wink:

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Re: Making Time for your SO

three times a day. text, phone, email, skype. there are many ways. once a month through real life chitthi

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I think it is really important for a relationship for people to touch base with one another atleast once a day minimally. Even if it is a 5 minute phone call. It shows the other person that you care enough about the other person to include them in your daily life… even if it is in the smallest way.

We call each other once a day (usually at night/evening) and sometimes send emails back and forth during the day (if we have the time).

We try to see each other in person once a week! But talking to them only once a week!!! :eek: Definitely not good enough for the relationship IMHO … if you consider them your SO.

Obviously if you are still in the “getting to know” phase… and they are not your “SO” yet. … then contact once a week is fine.

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Even though he lives in pak and I in the states, we talk a minimal of 1-2 hours a day. The best therapy EVER!!!

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Oh-em-gee

If my SO only contacted me once a week, I would think hes not interested! unless theres an acceptable reason, I mean if your each others SO you gotta make time for each other at least once everyday!

We are very busy people but my fiancé has got me into the habit of staying in touch with him constantly now, we call, IM or text... sometimes even snail mail...even tho we are in the same state...and we try to meet up 1-2 times a month :)

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Easy solution , marry someone from GS :wink:

and yea we have GS Chat for the very same reason :snooty:

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Get them hooked to GS too :halo:

Everyday, 3-4 times a day. Unless he’s abducted by aliens :asa:

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Are you out of your mind ? How can someone let go of any opportunity to talk to SO. I talk to her on 24x7x365 basis , she is always in my mind , I talk to her in my imagination, in my dreams and in person, I miss her when I am at office . :wub: so I talk to her in my imagination. I write a love letter and give to her when I go home. :blush:
I do GSing only when I have nothing else to do. :silly:

I guess you are still not married or in love. :confused:

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Last I knew Significant other meant = husband or wife, not boyfriend/girlfriend.

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If your comment is directed toward my post ?

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Re: Making Time for your SO

no.....

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:rotfl:

I had prepared a very mircheeley reply for you if you had said yes. :smiley:
If you want I can share it here ?

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We talk at least once a day, on a busy day. We usually end up calling each other for other reasons like; how blah thing works, what is the best way to do blah, can you pick that up on your way, i'll take it from you later etc. Our conversations are mostly like that. On regular days, 1-2 texts, 1-2 calls that are minute-long. I see him 3-4 times a week.

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An hour maybe half face to face.
3-4 emails a day.
Depends how much we have to talk about.

At the end of the when the bachay and buzarg loug have gone to bed. While he's watching T.V - I usually pass out talking to him on the couch.

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Wow seriously??

I don't get that kind of time to watch TV usually ...

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And you are not yet married, right ?

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sre go ahead :smiley:

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Right. Your point is?

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Once a week? :eek: I talk to my husband ALL the time… even when at work, he keeps sending me IMs (about bills and chores or just saying what are you doing :p). And when we come home, I keep talking to him… aatay jaatay, kicthen mein sai, since our kitchen and family room are one big area… wahaan sai jawab nahin aata tau then I get mad :cb: but I still keep talking.