Making an effort in a relationship

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Re: Making an effort in a relationship

@Niksik

There are some relationships you’re born into…such as your family. By default, you have to make an effort to maintain healthy relationships.

Then there are friendships that you choose. These are usually based on commonality of interests, other circumstances.

Then there are the marital relationships. How do you know if you should make a commitment? With a potential rishta, there are some common sense factors…such as family background, education, interests…and there are some “emotional” factors which are different for different people. The commitment comes when the head and the heart are in agreement. How does that happen? There is no out of the book logical explanation for that.

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