Re: making a problem out of nothing 
UM YEAH…that’s the point that I was making…that both parties should have consideration for one another…and it shouldn’t be that only one person is doing all the work.
One of my friends and I usually agree on most things…but this one time she said how her husband had said that it’s mostly up to the woman to make the marriage work. And she concurred with him. I thought it was an idiotic statement…a great way to exempt oneself from putting any effort of their own into a relationship. I wish I had told her so…but I held my tongue…wasn’t in the mood to hear her defend him.