making a problem out of nothing :(

ok i have a really stupid problem

i feel a little bit insecure when my husband looks at pretty/hot girls, it is not like he keeps eyes on other girls but you know the kind of situation when you are in a shopping centre and some really pretty girl walks near you or when you are watching tv enjoying the music and bollywood dance lol and suddenly comes the most ridiculous song sheila ki jawani, and sheila dance moves omg lol i just hate it when i see the wow expression in his eyes or maybe thats just my imagination he is btw very loving and caring husband. i am pregnant with our first child and obviously i am not in my best shape at the moment lol aur wesey be i am not a gori chitti pretty blond girl or hot like katrina kaif who can move like a stripper. so i don’t like myself stressing about this thing, i change the channel or just get a bit annoyed, dont know how to ignore this… how do do you deal with you partner in this kind of situation or do you think you dont have this jealousy feeling because your hubby/wife is so shareef?

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why don't you try sheila ki jawani moves on him. probably this will solve the problem and give you insight what is really wrong with your man.

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lol omg hahaha firenze i was thinking to do so lol but i dont want to imagine myself dancing on sheila ki jawani with my big bump

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that’s what i am talking about …

few more tips:

  1. give him a sneak peak :wink:

  2. write dirty

  3. Let your eye wonder.. meaning flirty with other men in front of him.

  4. tell him what you-want. no .. not the grocery list :smack:

  5. Give him the remote

  6. play the naughty version of “I Never” or “hot stranger”

I gave you pearls here lady. Enjoy, do report back. Go .. get him.

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lol hahaha hilarious okay i am gonna try all from your list but i am sure i will fail...will report you soon lol thanks for your help :D

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There was a similar thread in the recent history of Life1, with a number of good points made by a number of posters. You need to use the search engine of Gupshup. Someone might help you in finding it, I am not go at it.

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Wht I do I say caught u n thn v both laugh I m 1 tht wife who herself says 2 huby look at her wow hehehehe

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All men look. Just accept it and accept the fact that he is with you.

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What do you do with your time, can I ask? Do you work?

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^ i am on maternity leave. just started last week and i was working full time. i know you might think "khali zehan shaitaan ka ghar" but even now i keep myself with household stuff but anyway i guess CM is right all men do that i should take it easy....

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Yes, they look and it should bother you

the end

^ agreed...

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You shouldn't feel insecure, he is married to you and in men's head, looking at girls doesn't mean anything. It's sad but in these things, men and women DO sometimes think differently. Dont stress about it too much. Just try to make a joke out of it, or if it really bothers you, talk to him about it but make it clear you're not telling him off or accusing him or anything!

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… right all men do that i should take it easy…
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First wrong step, towards the greater damage…

Your and mine ideals (and pious forefathers) had Self respect,* Haya *and Ghairat.

Re: making a problem out of nothing :(

If anything attention grabbing crosses your field of vision, you will turn your head and look at it, regardless of gender. This is simply that. If your husband is otherwise faithful to you, you shouldn't worry about anything. If you really want him to not check out people on the TV, then try to not put on those channels.

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attention ...... sabiha2 kahin myry hal py na pohnch jana
ask me what i m facing phir aap apna rona bhool jain gi

u r 100% right every girl wants that his hubby only see 'apriciate 'care her not any one else even his mother' sister

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:nono: :ast:

Good luck with that fantasy.

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kabhi koi insano wali advice bhai day diya kero

wait, do you understand urdu?

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Sabiha:

Did you have these feelings BEFORE your got pregnant?

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Every women should be doing these.

But even if every above act is done, men will still look. Period. So let him. And don’t take it personally.