Tattoos- they just look so weird to me and being a firm believer of not messing the way God has made you, i feel tattoos take away from what you naturally are. Its hard to describe but yes i don’t think its possible for me to ever even remotely be attracted to someone with a visible tattoo.
Poor hygiene- the why here is quite obvious! Like how can any1 be attracted to someone like that. Yikes!
Han G type- someone who doesn’t know their mind, have no self ego/self respect just are very unattractive. Even if you really like someone, it shouldn’t mean you completely forget or loose your self. And you need not be very ambitious but at least should be clear about what you want and how you plan on going about it.
Couch potatoes- lazy, not outgoing…really wasting time and not enjoying life!
Not Academically inclined- again, you don’t have to be super educated or intelligent but should possess the basic value for education. Its quite a turn off to hear that I’m glad i graduated, couldn’t bother to study further.
Short height- i know this is not something in anyones control but a guy below 5’6" is really a turn off. This is most probably why Aamir Khan never appealed to me.
Anger and attitude. If you are going to give an attitude you are out.
Girl with no manners. I actually stress on good manners which also includes cleanliness.
Girls who just keep it to themselves. Hey i am not saying you should just shout out who you are...but be very open to have good conversation without any pre- conceived notions.
And this is my personal opinion so dont shoot. I am good to hear about all religious talk especially when i am getting to know you but dont stretch it too much. For example, you might tell me that you love listening to lectures online..which is good. But dont push and send me 10 links of islamic lectures and talk about Sheikhs..therefore loosing a complete sight about getting to know you. True story.
When i ask you about your goals and plans in life...i actually do not mean you just sit at home and raise my children. I actually mean....what is it that you want to achieve in life other than raising children.
When a girl is not confident. I dont care how attractive or educated you might be....but if you are not confident and open then chances of me getting to know would diminish.
Lastly girls who think every guy is pervert other than their own brothers and father . True story.
But least you can do is not judge our intention.
This might steer some controversy but i am gona say it. Indian hyderabadi accents along with other indian accent , hindi speaking girls like mumbai type. Ya major turn off. Hence keeping my option open to Pakistani girls only.
This might steer some controversy but i am gona say it. Indian hyderabadi accents along with other indian accent , hindi speaking girls like mumbai type. Ya major turn off. Hence keeping my option open to Pakistani girls only.
I have two Hyderabadi best friends…I find their accents adorable and their cooking amazing
Turn offs:
Smoking…the smell makes me want to vomit
Bad hygiene…shower everyday, shave, look put together and know what looks good on you
Lazy men…we all have lazy moments but you’re not 75…get up and get out there
Lack of confidence…or what I call phattu men. When I see a man talk talk talk talk talk talk about how wonderful he is and how happy he can make me…all I hear is zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Literally. I’ve noticed men who talk a lot don’t do much…and don’t really say much either.
Lack of social etiquette…you should have tameez, basic manners, be aware of how you come across, etc.
Bad attitude in life…men who whine or complain or just view everything negatively. What a drain.
Guys who go out of their way to demonstrate how "Western" or "liberal" they are – You don't have to go drinking with your mates 3 days a week or shag every woman in front of you to prove how liberal you are. In fact, doing so doesn't make you "liberal," it makes you rather immature.
Lack of drive/motivation – I cannot abide a guy who shows absolutely no desire to achieve anything in life or make the smallest effort to better his life (and I don't necessarily mean financially as one can better one's life in other ways as well).
Lack of intelligence – The gentleman does not have to be an Oxford graduate, but he should at the very least have some level of intelligence (and if not, at least have the common sense to look things up when in doubt).
Example:
- Yes, I was born Copenhagen.
- Do you speak German, then?
- No, because Copenhagen is in Denmark and Danes speak DANISH.
Guys who cannot do absolutely anything without their parent's permission – It's quite important to respect one's parents. I understand this and quite agree. However, when you need permission from your parents for every little thing, down to the most minute of details, it gets rather tiresome and makes me wonder what will become of you when your parents pass away.
Inability to take directions – You say you followed the GPS directions to the letter? But we’ve passed this street 3 times already, you say? Right…
Baby faced - when my husband is clean shaven I dont feel attracted to him at all
Closed minded/rigid/not open to trying new things
The last two ones are for me too!! The clean shaven look just makes a guy look like a little boy and the stubbornness or rigidness is so difficult to be around.
Anger and attitude. If you are going to give an attitude you are out.
Girl with no manners. I actually stress on good manners which also includes cleanliness.
This might steer some controversy but i am gona say it. Indian hyderabadi accents along with other indian accent , hindi speaking girls like mumbai type. Ya major turn off. Hence keeping my option open to Pakistani girls only.
Yeah same as mine plus I prefer a girl with etiquette, good manners and respect for elders over a highly educated one with none of these.
Should be down to earth, easy going and satisfied with whatever I have not like the ones who keep complaining doesn't matter how well you earn.
Also should speak clean Urdu and have some knowledge of our religion.
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