You're twisting the hadith, sadly.
Prophet Muhammad PBUH said, if there was one sajdah allowed besides bowing before Allah swt, I would have asked you to bow before your husbands.
This is not the only example in Islam that your husband is your way to Jannah and vice versa. There are many ayahs in the Quran that talk about the importance of your spouse such as, you're created from each other, Allah swt puts love between your hearts and a couple is each other's cloak. And contrary to popular belief, a wife has the SAME rights as the husband does.
Not same exactly...like a wife cannot give talaaq, she can take khulaa which is slightly different. Just one example.