sorry but you are not discussing Religion. What you are discussing is a part of collective works by HUMANS… not the Divine work. The same mentality prevails in this thread too, men putting a man’s work parallel to the word of Allah…you are not obliged to impose the work of man onto Muslims…you cannot redistribute/passing it as Allah’s…
no matter what the purpose … trying to drill respect into your wife by using metaphors…and slapping a seal of religion on it…sorry its not right.
there are no additives..
there are no substitutions..
to Tawheed