What I don't get is, what are you gaining by talking about this? I don't understand the importance or value of such a question. I think something of this nature should only be discussed between a husband and wife.
I'm sorry for not answering your question, I just don't think its appropriate.
Aisha, I totally understand your POV. I agree even with that 'this nature should only be discussed between a husband and wife'. But is this statement of yours only applicable to this thread? There are dozens and dozens of threads in Life on the topics that should remain between husband and wife. At least I started with a Hadees and not a guppy made assumption.
You know what is surprising. Its not the fact that people say yes or no, but just because it goes against the ego of certain people, how easily people are questioning the authenticity of hadees and even ditching all books of hadees just to win an argument.