Re: Maikay jana
thats sad 
one of my friend’s maika is also in same city in pak n she’s living here in middleeast…but she never visited her parents home after marriage coz her mil doesnt like…
so her parents come to her inlaws home to meet her whenever she goes to pak…
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My SIL is in another country, so going to stay at her parents just like that is out of question. She has been here for 8 years and visited pakistan 5 times. The last 3 times were with one year in between and she stays in our house in the city with her mother and siblings. She usually stays for about 4 months, but I dont think this will be the case anymore as kids are starting school etc.
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oh gosh...wha'ts wrong with these MILs....u can't even visit ur own family. :(
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I live just few blocks away from mine so I get to see them often, very lucky. Hubby has no issues as ong as responsibilities are taken care of. I still spend the night every few weeks with my kids as they r super attached to Nana Abu. Before when I was working full time my mom would often do dinner....but we kinda take turns now....
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My parents lives about 5-6 miles away from me. I go over 3-4 times a week, love it. When my husband and I started living together...I was going to school full-time and I would make sure everything was done at home (cooking, cleaning blah blah). I would see my parents everyday for 15 minutes cos I'd drive to the train station which was a block form their house. We moved in together in September btw...then in February I found out I was pregnant, and I was going to school everyday from 8-5...it was really tiring and taking a toll on my health. I started going to my mom's house every day and my mom would cook for me and my husband on days that I was extremely pooped. This went on for about 2-3 weeks and one day my husband said I don't pay any attention to him lol. He though as my mom was helping me out through my pregnancy/school, that I was purposefully ignoring him. I felt bad about that and despite having a full schedule and being pregnant I've pretty much stopped taking all the help from my mom.
He doesn't have a problem with me visiting my parents everyday - but he also has one quirk where I need to be home before him...and his homecoming time is around 5 as well, lol.
I don't think in-laws/husbands have a problem with going to see your parents as long as your responsibilities to your husband/household/kids is being fulfilled. Obvs if you're ignoring them, you're creating problems.
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Well me and hubby are at my parents house right now :) and here more or less every evening. It's mutually beneficial. But I don't stay over and don't have any desire to. Very lucky that hubby doesn't have an issue with the way things are. Sometimes when I'd otherwise be alone at our flat he tells me that I should go to my parents but I just prefer some time to myself!
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Well me and hubby are at my parents house right now :) and here more or less every evening. It's mutually beneficial. But I don't stay over and don't have any desire to. Very lucky that hubby doesn't have an issue with the way things are. Sometimes when I'd otherwise be alone at our flat he tells me that I should go to my parents but I just prefer some time to myself!
And he said you're allowed to come to my house and stay the night too! I have a witness!!!!
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Stoppit mine does the same. If he's going out somewhere hell always say why don't you go to your mums but sometimes I just want alone time!
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^ same here!
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