and you are missing my point totally… that reponse was TLK thread about describing his situation.
You intial thread was written in an awkward way…
"time someone mentions that they want a wife who should know how to cook decent food .. .
When a father inquires about the consequences (pro or con) of his daughter not knowing how to cook but doing well in her career/education… sincerly worried if she will make a good wife without knowing how to cook… "