Re: Maid issue
i feel for u Gullible. but dont think its only ur inlaws. its inlaws everywhere with double standards.
i can understand very well how ur baby doesn't let u rest. i hav a 10 months old still wakes4-5 times at night n i never hav enuf sleep. just think it this way they r creating probs in ur life deliberately. they want to see u suffer n feel happy. u r not gonna make them happy. coz u r not gonna suffer n u r not gonaa whine. take things calmly n smile infront of them .cry in ur privacy if u like to.
as for MIL make some rules never say NO or argue but do ur stuff quietly. If she makes mood on ur sleeping late or not talking smile it off but keep doing wat u find better for ur health. very sweetly keep convincing ur hubby that how much over tired u get.
if ur mil doesn't think of u don't bother abt her old age. If @ 65 she can travel so can she hold n look after ur baby.
Start handing ur child over to her. Even at night sometimes take her to their room n keep them awake with u"knock kncok...ammi daikhain itna ro rehi hai . samajh nahi aa rehi kia keron. plz aap he zara daikhain. mujh se chup nahi ho rehi" when they complain just smile "aap dadi hain is ki. aap se behter kis ko pta ho ga"