Mai kia karoo?

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Kaleem yara, I don't have to be cold when people feed me bullsh!t or do I?

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are u watching the match?
I hear you..Sometimes you have to be a bit nice to people who are hurt or dont know how to solve their problem

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aww poor roman. looks like someone got jipped by a girl :halo:

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nah man, I'm not watching the match. I watched bit of the last test. It was interesting. Sewag is a good bat. Kineria needs variety.

Kaleem, have you heard those stories of broken homes? Kids without father or mother? Or the misery of people in a relationship that didn't work out few years later because finally they realized it was all wrong to begin with? And then the whole family suffers? Do you know why that happens? It happens because of the similiar crap.

Imagine yourself marrying a woman whom you don't know doesn't love you but loves someone else. Imagine your life down the road few years later when it all finally broke up. The woman was never able to accept you. You were never able to accept her because she was not there 100%. Now tell me who's hurt? You, your kids or the very woman?

I love my culture but I hate some of the things equally about our culture. We try to put veneer over things thinking it'd be alright. Let's just let it go and live with it and never look at the real thing in the eyes. What's the venner here? Do you really want to be nice to someone who's about to ruin two lives? Whether it be the custom or the culture or the family or whatever? Who's hurt here? Seriously.

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Now that you have put it this way and help me see the light. I agree with you. I must say very nicely explained.

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thank you everyone for your kind words and advice.

I am rather keeping schtoom on this thread at the moment as i am apprehensive and hence replying to you guys via pm.

Thank you so so much.

God bless you all and I really pray that no one else goes though this cuz it certainly is a very very painful situation to be in and i mean that.

DL

GS ROCKS!
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marrying within castes and only families is just simply the ****tiest idea anyone has every come up with. pisses me off, it really does:)

and then the kids sacrifice their feelings thinking the parents are always right, ignoring the fact that they're just being stubborn.